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Novels to Expand Your Horizons

In the past few years I have considered how not only non-fiction but fiction books can have an impact on our lives and challenge us to think, feel or behave in different ways. I spent many years stuck in a world of self-growth type books (which I still like on occasion) believing these to be the books to excite, challenge and engage new ways of thinking and being. I have realized, especially during this period of time in our history where we are spending more time alone and social distancing, the power of a great novel. In recent years I have enjoyed some newer books and also classics that have stuck with me for different reasons.

Here are a few of my favorites!

Classics:

East of Eden, by John Steinbeck- This might be my favorite book I have ever read. It is worth a read just for the concept of ¨timshel¨ which means ẗhou mayest.¨ The overarching theme in this book is our challenge as people to choose between good and evil and that this is our purpose in life. The characters are engrossing and teach us lessons about life, and what it means to be a good man or woman. The book is captivating and timeless.

Pride and Prejudice, by Jane Austen- Currently reading (almost done!) but this will go down as one of my favorites as well. Affectionately known as one of the original ¨enemies to lovers¨ romances. This book challenges the concepts of appearances and reputation, vs true character. It also examines pride and reserve and how it can stand in the way of relationship. Both main characters are challenged to self growth in different ways, and they are both good-hearted people deep down that allow one another to influence the other in a positive way. Through truly opening up and getting to now one another, they both are changed in the end. A true love story!

Newer:

The Midnight Library, by Matt Haig: This book is about a 30something year old woman who wants to end her life. She has a spiritual-like experience which allows her to examine what her life could have been like if it went a number of different ways, and a new understanding of what it means to live and be alive. It is beautifully written and helps us to focus on living and loving our lives.

Meet Me at the Museum, by Anne Youngson: This is a lesser-known book than others I am recommending, but I found it tender and touching. A middle aged man and woman, who have never met begin, through a random circumstance, to become penpals and they share their inner lives with one another in a captivating way. To me, it showed beautifully the thoughts, feelings and perceptions about our lives that we do not share freely and easily to others. They openly begin discussing their joys and sorrows and challenges that come with being at turning points in their lives. Through their slowly getting to know each other they share more and more deeply and enjoy a genuine connection with someone whom they likely would have never met in real life.

The Extraordinary Life of Sam Hell, by Robert Dugoni: This book shows the power of a strong-willed and loving family, the challenges of putting up with bullies, the wonder of friendship, the benefits of perseverance, and just endearing characters that make you root for them. There are also some themes of racism and faith. A very uplifting and encouraging read.

I hope to encourage you to pick up a new book and start reading! Audiobooks are a great way to enjoy a novel as well, especially if you want to fold some laundry or do the dishes at the same time!

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